Its the Law of Abusers — A very basic, or shall I say “Law Of Abusers,” is that every kind of abuser needs a scapegoat. Be it psychopaths, serial killers, domestic abusers, or a bully, every one of these abusers needs a scapegoat to carry out or practice their abuse. Agree? Narcissists are no exception to…

It’s not rocketry — Although it’s never easy to decipher people’s thoughts and feelings, it’s also not that hard that it’s perceived as a superpower. It’s not as rocketry as you think it is. Another myth I’d like to bust before I start speaking about reading thoughts and feelings — “You have to be…

It’s what you sow that you reap — Attachment styles are the ways a person interacts with people and how they behave in relationships. Most of us have a repeating pattern in our relationships. Some of us find it hard to trust, some find it difficult to show their true emotions and some are afraid of attachments. These…

Using negativity for good is a technique — Pessimism (negative thinking) is a tendency to expect the worst out of a situation or view things through a negative lens, and considered as a big DON’T, but the psychologists disagree. The psychologists have proved that pessimism actually has mental health benefits of its own. Specifically for the patients who…

Narcissus – Did you know who Narcissus was? — Narcissus — Did you know who Narcissus was? A Greek legend? Not exactly. He was the first narcissist and the word narcissist comes from his name Narcissus. The name might be boring but his story for sure is worth lending an ear to. There exist two different tales in Greek…

Sometimes they do, but it’s too rare — Did you ever wonder what goes on in a toxic person’s head? Or why they are too toxic to handle? Or what drives them to behave in such an unempathetic way? Apply this logic. What if I told you that you are supposed to eat food with your nose and…

Tough game, right? — Tough game, right? They are too sticky to remove! like a chewing gum stick stuck in the hair. But did you know that even chewing gum can be separated from hair without having to cut a chunk of it? It’s all about technique; if you do it correctly, you do…

Like Money Attracts Money, Trauma Attracts Trauma — Like money magnets, there is such a thing called trauma magnets. These are people who attract trauma and abuse. Yes, you read it right, like money attracts more money, certain people attract trauma. Why Are Certain People Trauma Magnets? Certainly not because they are bad people and deserve to be abused. They are good, innocent people…

There is a great chance that you are mistaking trauma bonding with love. — We all have different definitions for love, so I better not try to add another. And we all have a good picture of what love is, so I’ll just leave it as it is and move on with what trauma bonding. Then we’ll see if you are one of those…