Published in ILLUMINATION·PinnedMember-onlyFetishism-Crime-KleptomaniaIs Your Fetish Innocent? — Most people have fetishes, be it for feet, hair, tongue, neck, bikinis, bras, gowns, skirts, nails, cushions, teddies, chests, panties, stockings, and the list is endless and is as diverse as people and their behaviours are. A fetish could be of any part of the body or possibly of anything…Psychology5 min readPsychology5 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·PinnedMember-onlyNarcissists and ScapegoatsIts the Law of Abusers — A very basic, or shall I say “Law Of Abusers,” is that every kind of abuser needs a scapegoat. Be it psychopaths, serial killers, domestic abusers, or a bully, every one of these abusers needs a scapegoat to carry out or practice their abuse. Agree? Narcissists are no exception to…Psychology6 min readPsychology6 min read
PinnedMember-onlyHow Well Do You Read People’s Thoughts & Feelings?It’s not rocketry — Although it’s never easy to decipher people’s thoughts and feelings, it’s also not that hard that it’s perceived as a superpower. It’s not as rocketry as you think it is. Another myth I’d like to bust before I start speaking about reading thoughts and feelings — “You have to be…Psychology5 min readPsychology5 min read
PinnedMember-onlyYour Attachment Style Greatly Affects Your Relationship, Know How?It’s what you sow that you reap — Attachment styles are the ways a person interacts with people and how they behave in relationships. Most of us have a repeating pattern in our relationships. Some of us find it hard to trust, some find it difficult to show their true emotions and some are afraid of attachments. These…Relationships4 min readRelationships4 min read
PinnedMember-onlyYour Negative Thoughts Might Actually Be HelpfulUsing negativity for good is a technique — Pessimism (negative thinking) is a tendency to expect the worst out of a situation or view things through a negative lens, and considered as a big DON’T, but the psychologists disagree. The psychologists have proved that pessimism actually has mental health benefits of its own. Specifically for the patients who…Mental Health3 min readMental Health3 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Feb 3Member-onlyAre You a Helicopter Parent?It’s Both Good & Bad To Be a Helicopter Parent. — A helicopter Parent is always concerned about their child. A helicopter parent does not let the child solve his/her problems. They monitor the child’s activity, in & out of the house. They are well aware of what their child is up to, their location, and other activities, such as whom…Parenting2 min readParenting2 min read
Dec 25, 2022Member-onlyNarcissism is Not Self-LoveNarcissus – Did you know who Narcissus was? — Narcissus — Did you know who Narcissus was? A Greek legend? Not exactly. He was the first narcissist and the word narcissist comes from his name Narcissus. The name might be boring but his story for sure is worth lending an ear to. There exist two different tales in Greek…Narcissism3 min readNarcissism3 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Dec 13, 2022Member-onlyWhy Narcissists Think They are Not ToxicSometimes they do, but it’s too rare — Did you ever wonder what goes on in a toxic person’s head? Or why they are too toxic to handle? Or what drives them to behave in such an unempathetic way? Apply this logic. What if I told you that you are supposed to eat food with your nose and…Narcissism3 min readNarcissism3 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Dec 12, 2022Member-onlyHow to Get Rid of NarcissistsTough game, right? — Tough game, right? They are too sticky to remove! like a chewing gum stick stuck in the hair. But did you know that even chewing gum can be separated from hair without having to cut a chunk of it? It’s all about technique; if you do it correctly, you do…Narcissism4 min readNarcissism4 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION·Dec 7, 2022Member-onlyWhy Few People Are Trauma MagnetsLike Money Attracts Money, Trauma Attracts Trauma — Like money magnets, there is such a thing called trauma magnets. These are people who attract trauma and abuse. Yes, you read it right, like money attracts more money, certain people attract trauma. Why Are Certain People Trauma Magnets? Certainly not because they are bad people and deserve to be abused. They are good, innocent people…Narcissism3 min readNarcissism3 min read
